1.Embarrassed you and put you down. 2.Control what you do, who you see or talk to, or where you go. 3. Stop you from seeing your friends or family. 4. Take your money, make you ask him for it, refuse to give you money. 5. Act like the abuse is no big deal, and it is your fault or deny doing it.6. Threaten to kill you in a joking manner.